The wonderful small business for which I work part-time has adopted a casual work attire policy. It literally can be jeans day everyday – except when there is a customer meeting. This is great, right?! It IS quite lovely and easy to throw on a pair of jeans and a nice top on mornings when I head out the door for work.
However, having been accustomed to business professional dress (wearing suits almost everyday), I’m struggling to put together work-appropriate jeans-wear that couldn’t also be worn to a bar for going-out. I’m not a huge fan of skinny jeans, which also happen to be my date-night jeans. Other pairs of jeans are part of my “mom wear” on my work from home as a full time parent days. I hope they don’t look too much like Mom Jeans!
Similar to mom jeans, a few months back I wrote about my “mom bob.” While I LOVE being a mom, I don’t want to have a hairstyle or clothes that immediately scream MOM. As a 30-something mom, I feel stuck in a fashion rut. I can’t dress like a 20 year old, though I’m not ready for the cat applique sweatshirts either. Plus shopping with a toddler and pre-schooler in tow is not exactly enjoyable, so I avoid it at almost all costs, just wearing what I have in my closet.
Maybe I need to upgrade a few pieces. Maybe I’m not digging the skinny jeans and flowy tunics that remind me of too much of maternity wear. Maybe I need to consider shopping in different stores. Maybe I need to just wear yoga pants and throw my hair in a pony tail and hope that What Not to Wear is secretly watching me. I totally understand why moms are helped by that show so often because it’s so easy to put everyone else in your family first, leaving your appearance and clothes much lower on the priority list.
Any advice dear readers / blogosphere? Do I need to search Pinterest for outfit inspiration? What casual work attire do you think works best?
- Dressing Down (Draft #2) (plmcatee.wordpress.com)