I recently read “10 Ways to Celebrate School’s End with your Kids” in a local parenting newspaper. First, don’t we all love such top 10 lists? Those darn headlines just suck us in.
Anyway, back to the article.
Some ideas are fine, realistic ideas that I deem normal for our family, while others just are way over the top ideas that I will NOT be doing with my kids. I am all for making the end of school year special and celebrating my oldest completing her year as a four year old kindergartener, but let’s not get all crazy about it! I don’t want the end of the school year to eclipse even more important events, such as birthdays, Christmas and Easter.
At any rate, here’s our list of normal vs. over the top ideas for the last day of school:
- Last Day of School Indicators – I’ll frequently say, “Honey, it’s the last day of school” to help motivate my daughter to get ready. (Article suggests taping crepe paper streamers on their door. No thanks.)
- Special Breakfast – In the interest of being on time and NOT missing her bus, I’ll make a normal breakfast. (Article suggests party food – an ice cream sundae with cereal topping. Hmmm…sounds like too much sugar to add to the inherent excitement of the last day. No thanks.)
- Plan something fun – YES, we are going to go out to eat as a family and let my daughter choose where we go. (Article says a friend’s mom rents a bounce house for the last day & has kids over for a play date. Wow! Sounds like fun, but we’ll go smaller scale.)
- Last day outfit – My daughter will wear whatever she chooses to leave on time. She chose her outfit on the first day as well; see picture above. Now I just have to remember to take a picture! (Article suggests a special last day of school outfit, which is not a bad idea.)
- Invite friends over – Check – we have two play dates this week, though not on the “BIG DAY.” I’m also trying to get done my home related chores & errands, so we can just focus on having fun on her last day of school.
- Plan summer activities – We will talk about our summer plans as a family. (Article suggests creating a summer bucket list as a family.)
- Plan stay-up-late activities – I’m sure we’ll do something fun as a family after eating out. (Article suggests a movie night & having their favorite movie snacks to keep them fed until midnight. Fortunately, a late bedtime for us is probably 8:30 – 9 pm.)
- Balloons – I don’t think I’ll celebrate with balloons after having to break up sibling fights about balloons and having some balloon-related injuries in our house. (Article suggests filling back of car with balloons as you pick up your kid from school.) Another over the top idea is greeting your kids with a water gun fight when they get off the bus. I think I’ll just give her a big hug instead!
- Stock up on summer fun – This goes back to #6. We have a fun summer planned, and I’ll probably troll Pinterest for some fun activities from time to time.
- Stop being a grown up for awhile – Yes, we can all stand to let loose and have fun with the last day of school.
I am certainly proud of my daughter’s first official year in school, and I look forward to celebrating and enjoying summer with her. Reading this article sort of made me feel like a “stick in the mud,” but, as with anything, I think you have to determine what makes sense for your family, and create your own traditions for big days. The excitement of the last school day is a given (for most kids & parents anyway), so I’ll be happy to play off of her mood, be silly, and have fun!
Cheers to a great school year & summer ahead!
How do you feel about these last day of school ideas?